In this milestone episode, we celebrate reaching 10,000 downloads! To mark the occasion, family lawyer Paula Applehans and principal mediator Diane Lovejoy dive deep into the legal and practical realities of intervention orders (IVOs) and family violence. Stripping...
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Every episode of A Lawyer and a Mediator Walk into a Bar, all in one place. Straight talk on separation, parenting, property and Family Dispute Resolution from Dianne Loveday and Paula Appelhans.
Pet Custody in Separation (Australia) — Who Gets the Dog? Family Law Act & FDR Explained
Can a dog be put on an Intervention Order?
Family Violence & Evidence — New Australian Family Law Act: FVO, Coercive Control & FDR Explained
Mediation vs. Litigation
Christmas Shared Care: Step-by-Step Child-Focused Co‑Parenting & Holiday Parenting Plan
A practical guide for separated parents planning shared care at Christmas. Mediator Dianne Loveday and Alina outline a child-focused approach to co-parenting at the holidays, reduce conflict, manage logistics and create a clear holiday parenting plan. Listen for...
Supporting Children Through Separation & Divorce (Part 3) — Practical Steps for Parents
Episode 3 of a three-part series from Bayside Mediation. Dianne Loveday (Principal Mediator) and Alina Kleiman (Mediator & Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner) explain practical, age-based strategies to support children during separation and divorce. Learn key...
Support Children Through Separation & Divorce (Part 2) — Practical Guidance for Parents
Part 2 of a three-part series: Bayside Mediation Principal Mediator Dianne Loveday and Mediator Alina Kleiman explain how to support children through separation and divorce. Practical guidance for parents and caregivers on communicating with kids, managing...
How to Support Children During Separation & Divorce (Part 1) — Practical Steps for Parents
Part 1 of a three-part series: Bayside Mediation Principal Mediator Dianne Loveday and mediator Alina Kleiman explain how to support children during separation and divorce. Hear practical guidance for parents and carers on talking with kids, emotional support, and...
Family Dispute Resolution: Private vs Government-Funded Mediation — Confidentiality, Neutrality & Choosing the Right Path (Australia)
Hosts Dianne Loveday (mediator) and Paula Appelhans (family lawyer) unpack the practical differences between private mediation and government-funded Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) in Australia. Hear how confidentiality, neutrality and court-use of session content...
2025 changes to Australia’s Family Law Act – Pets
Paula’s still in Tonga, and this week’s episode is for the animal lovers. 🐾 With recent changes to Australia’s Family Law Act, companion animals, from dogs and cats to birds, bunnies, and beyond are getting new legal recognition in separation. Paula and Dianne unpack...
