A practical guide for separated parents planning shared care at Christmas. Mediator Dianne Loveday and Alina outline a child-focused approach to co-parenting at the holidays, reduce conflict, manage logistics and create a clear holiday parenting plan. Listen for actionable steps on scheduling, communication strategies and prioritising children’s needs during shared custody holidays.
Key Topics & Keywords Covered
- 3 Steps to Co-Parenting at Christmas: Practical planning strategies for alternating Christmas Day, splitting holiday time, or managing shared arrangements.
- Age-Appropriate Shared Care: How toddlers, primary school kids, and teenagers experience holiday transitions, and how to support them emotionally.
- Low-Conflict Handovers: Setting clear times, neutral handover locations, and boundaries to protect children from adult conflict on Christmas Day.
- Blended Families & Holiday Plans: Balancing step-parents, extended family events, and legal parenting agreements without unnecessary stress.
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Resources & Links
- Holiday Guide: Read our full guide on Stress-Free Shared Care Christmas: 3 Tips for Separated Parents.
- Bayside Mediation: Learn more about Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) and Parenting Plans.
- Paula Appelhans: Connect with Paula Appelhans on LinkedIn.
Disclaimer & Note from the Hosts
The information shared in this podcast is for general educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute formal legal advice. The views, stories, and insights expressed in this episode reflect the personal professional experiences and observations of Paula Appelhans (Family Lawyer) and Dianne Loveday (Mediator) working within the Australian legal and mediation spaces. Every family law matter is unique; please consult Paula or Dianne for advice specific to your personal situation.
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